Dadee, Dadee she implores him. You would think someone was kidnapping her, but it’s only me her Grammy taking her out of his arms and putting her in the car seat. I’m giving Mama and Dadee a break. They work from home and with raising an 18 month old too, it’s work upon work, laundry load after dishwasher load. I’m in San Diego, 3000 miles from home, to ‘help.’ After a week of finger painting, counting, and colors I have to return to the ‘best coast’ as my sister calls it. I